Private matchmaking · India
Marriage, on your terms.
Private matchmaking for people looking for compatible life partners, mixed-orientation marriages and other intentional partnerships.
Private by default · Verified members · Mutual consent
Aarav, 29
Gay · Hindu · Chennai
Real name hidden · Photos private
Not every marriage looks the same.
Different people want different arrangements. Lavender Match helps you find someone who wants the same.
- Lavender marriagesA marriage between people whose orientations differ, built on honesty and shared goals.
- Mixed-orientation marriagesPartners of different orientations choosing a life together.
- Companionate partnershipsFriendship, trust and a shared home at the centre.
- Asexual partnershipsCommitment without assumptions about intimacy.
- Other intentional relationshipsWhatever you agree on, together.
Privacy
You decide what they know.
Anonymous profiles
Use an anonymous display name instead of your real name.
Private discovery
Member profiles are not publicly searchable.
Mutual photo sharing
Photos are only shared after both people agree.
Mutual contact sharing
Contact information is only shared after both people agree.
How it works
Four steps. You lead each one.
- 1
Create your profile
Share the details that matter.
- 2
Find a match
Discover people based on relationship, cultural and life preferences.
- 3
Match
Send interest and connect only when the other person accepts.
- 4
Reveal
Choose together when to share photos, real names and contact details.
More than orientation.
Matching considers what your family and future actually involve.
- Orientation
- Religion
- Community / Caste
- Mother Tongue
- Location
- Marriage Preferences
- Children
- Family Expectations
- Lifestyle
Join the founding community.
Lavender Match is building its first community of members. Registration is free, and Founding Members get access to private member discovery and active matchmaking support.
Founding Membership · ₹4,999 / year. We don't promise a match.
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